Why should I choose you? You don’t have to!
When it comes to choosing a wedding videographer, you’re not just picking someone to hold a camera. You’re selecting someone who’s going to be there for every laugh, every tear, and every quiet moment that makes your day uniquely yours. So, let me lay down some wisdom for you: yes, you need someone who fits within your budget, but you also need someone you genuinely vibe with.
Why? Because your videographer is going to be around you, your family, and your friends all day long. This isn’t just about skill; it’s about connection. You can’t have someone who awkwardly hides in the shadows, avoiding interactions like a misplaced ghost. Your videographer should be a steward of relationships—someone who seamlessly becomes part of the party, blending professionalism with personality.
I’ll be the first to admit, I wasn’t always this way. When I first started, I wasn’t the most outgoing person. The wedding industry used to preach the mantra of “be a fly on the wall.” And sometimes, that’s still true. There are moments when stepping back is exactly what’s needed. But as I grew into my role, I realized something critical: being a great videographer is also about being a great people person.
Not every couple is the same. I’ve worked with the most energetic, lively couples who wanted to share every moment, and I’ve worked with couples who were quiet and reserved, speaking barely a word even during the toasts or ceremony. And you know what? Both types are completely fine. But here’s the catch: as a videographer, you have to adapt. If I were loud and animated with a quiet couple, they’d retreat even further into their shell. The magic lies in reading the room and adjusting to their energy.
That’s why I make it a point to truly get to know my couples. When we chat, I want to learn about you—your humor, your passions, the things that make you light up. And if the stars align, maybe we’ll even grab a drink together. Because connection matters. I’ve had consultations where I realized that I wasn’t the best fit for a couple, and you know what? That’s okay. I’d rather recommend someone I trust who I know will serve them well than take on a job where the vibe isn’t right. For me, every recommendation comes with weight; I don’t just throw out names because someone’s local. That’s a conversation for another day, but it’s worth mentioning.
The bottom line? Find someone you click with. Look for a videographer who not only captures the beauty of your day but also elevates it by blending into your world. Because when the energy is right, the footage speaks for itself. And trust me, when you’re rewatching those moments years from now, you’ll be glad you chose someone who truly “got” you.